Maybe this sounds wierd, but I often wish I was bi-racial. At first I was really aware of the differences in our family just because it was a 'new thing" but now, many times, I forget that we don't all look the same in our family. Luke, however, seems to think about it a lot. He's very sensitive and smart & perceptive. Anyhow, this is my wishing I could be "all things" for my kids & obviously that's impossible anyway.